Hurm...skrg dh mcm trend...ramai perempuan ade affair dgn suami org,xpn dgn pling kurang ade affair dgn boyfren org...klo org nasihat,alasn yg akn diorg bg adalah "ala,kawen pn bleh cerai..."! teruk betul org yg jenis mcm niyh...sedngkn dlm islam pn ckp 'jgnlah kita beli brg yg sedang dlm process tawar menawar..' dh terang dh klo brg tu org dh chop,jgn la amik...tmbh lg klo brg tu dh jd milik org...
Kt skola,kt uni,kt office,kt gym n myb kt dlm persatuan pencinta alam,almost semua tempat2 niyh adelah tmpt2 yg berpotensi untk prtner kite knl dgn org laen dan ade potensi nk curng. tp kdg2 pelik jgk,klo dh curng mknenyer x syg...tp knpe stil nk simpan? knpe x buang or break je? knpe diorg bleh pilih untk ade dua2??? tp pernah x kita try selami perasaan 'the other one' niyh? mcm mne plak dgn yg curang tu??? myb ade sbb yg bwt diorg curang?
Being 'the other one' :
bg aku,ade 2 situation untk org yg ske amik brg org niyh...
* diorg niyh mmg jenis xleh tgk org laen lebih dr diorg...ape je yg best diorg nk amik...kdg2 sje nk test power pn ade...yg niyh mmg terang2 org jenis niyh mmg jahat...mmg dh xleh nk bwt ape...mcm2 diorg bleh bwt untk dptkn ape yg diorg nk...org jenis niyh mmg bahaye...
*tp mcm mne plak dgn org yg kite consider sbgai mngsa keadaan??? myb diorg x tau yg org yg diorg cintakn tu dh berpunye? or myb jgk kite yg jtuh cinta dgn die dlu,tp die pilih untk couple dgn org laen...but then die stil xnk lpskn kite...bkn ke at that time,kite la yg akn jd 'the other one' tu!
The cheater's part :
Generally msti la yg curng niyh sbb die gatal...tp ade jgk situation d mne die myb under subconcious mind die,die dh boring dgn partner die...tp sbb sygkn relationship yg dh lme,people tend to try strt a new relationship with 'the other one' while keeping what he/she have...myb die nk try yg mne satu lbh mnrik...tp biase la manusia mne yg x tertarik dgn bnde baru..mse mula2 semua bgs..lme2 relationship yg br niyh pn akn jd hmbar mcm yg lme tu jgk...
Tp ade jgk situation di mane org curang bkn sbb die x syg or boring dgn partner die...die stil syg n nk kt partner die...juz that ade something yg die nk dr partner die,die x dpt...this thing not necessarily have to be in term of SEX only...kdg2 kite nk prtner yg caring,nk yg romntic,nk yg nmpk sporty or myb nk yg terer mengurut...tp klo dh prtner kite tu jenis yg x reti nk tunjukkn ksih syg die nk bwt mcm mne...myb jgk prtner kite tu x de duit untk blnje kite mkn kt restorn b'pusing KL tower (tp x semestinyer die x romntic.romantic tu slalunyer pki byk duit..),or klo prtner kite tu kaki bngku,jgn hrp la die nk nmpk sporty...
At this time,klo jd situation mcm niyh...pliz la tolong slhkn diri sendri...mse mule2 knl sblm couple xnk tnye die jenis yg mcm mne...lps tu bile die xleh bg ape yg kite nk mule la nk tarik muke...then cari org laen yg lbh caring,or lbh romntic yg bleh blnje mkn kt restorn b'pusing KL tower tu,or time tu jgk la br rse nyesal x couple dgn Aidil zakuan...
X kesah la ape alasn kite pn,kite msti ingt manusia mmg x prnh puas dgn ape yg die ade...myb lps prtner kite b'ubh ikot mcm ape yg kite nk,kite akn mntk bnde yg lbh plak...do why don't we juz accpt someone tu as who they are... as long as die x bwt ape2 yg melampaui bts perhubngn tu...mne ade mnusia yg perfect...myb prtner kite pn x ske dgn stgh prngai kite...tp klo die suroh kite b'ubh pn msti la kite xnk kn...
Nasiht yg sme jgk untk 'the other one' tu...walaupn die mungkin mngsa keadaan,tp kite ade pilihn untk x jdkn situation tu lg teruk...klo kite x ske bnde yg sme jd kt kite,jgn kite bwt kt org...klo kite kne tipu,silalah lari...u deserve sum1 better than that...ingt what goes around comes around...
Last but not least,klo prtnr kite dh curng,bla je la...xyh nk tunggu lme2 sedih2 smpi penuh satu perigi..klo kite stil sygkn die n die mmg dh berubh myb relationship tu stil bleh d selamtkn lg...tp make sure kite bleh maafkn dan lupekn bnde tu...most people they do forgive but never forget...selagi kite x lupekn,selagi tu la hati kite akn sakit...so doakn la diri hilang ingtn supaye xde la bnde yg sme di ungkit2 untk 50 thn akn dtg...n jgnla kite simpn perasaan dendam kt 'the other one' tu...sbb as 'the other one' diorg kne slalu redha dgn ape yg jd kt diorg sbb diorg yg pilih jln tu...ade satu poem aku pernh bwt dlu myb sesuai untk menyelami perasaan sbgai 'the other one' niyh...
Should I hide during the day?
Seeing you both along the way,
Your happiness makes me feels gay,
God is answering my only pray…
Do I come as a shadow night?
And stay awake at your beside,
Embracing you under the moon light,
To ensure you are sleeping tight…
rasa maca kne tampar2 baca bnda ni.hahahaha. aku kan si dominan tu ;p
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